HYPOCRATIC YOUNG INDIA

While it has become a fad for the youth to say that don’t give a damn to caste, the survey shows that 84 per cent of the youth prefer to marry in their own caste. Hypocrisy!

Hyderabad: When my mom and dad married out of their castes before forty years against the wrath of society and ostracism from close relatives, they dreamed that by the time their children grow up, the caste system won’t be so rigid and they would breathe in a society where caste won’t be an objectionable aspect. Down thirty years, and they were being questioned about the caste of my mom whenever they took the marriage proposals of my brothers into someone of the dad’s caste. Mom says, she never ever thought of her caste as many times as it has been mentioned during time of my brothers’ marriages. Finally vexed, when my dad asked my brothers that why don’t they find the bride of their choice from any caste, they said, “we don’t want to be worried about our children’s marriages like you, by marrying into other castes.”

This is the state of things in our neo modern society right now. The survey jointly conducted by the Centre For The Study of Developing Societies, Lonrad Adenauer Stiftung and Lokniti, Indian youth are certainly becoming more modern in their appearance but their thoughts and views reflect a troubling inclination towards intolerance and conservatism. Caste lines have become more rigid than they were before fifty years. While it has become a fad for the youth to say that don’t give a damn to caste, the survey shows that 84 per cent of the youth prefer to marry in their own caste. Hypocrisy!

Boys would like to show off an ultra modern girl friend but when it comes to marriage, they want a docile girl who is Karyeshu Dasi and Sayaneshu Rambha. Hypocrisy! We want to be accepted, acknowledged and applauded for everything we do. The sense of doing something purely for our happiness doesn’t exist in our society. We would be branded as selfish. Then is it not selfish to turn blind eye to hunger of people around you and gift millions of worth jewelery to god? Hypocrisy!

A video clipping has been doing rounds in social media where a rich man is serving a wedding dinner with rice covered with gold foil. More than 30 per cent of the Indian population can’t afford two square meals a day, forget about the gold foil on it. But most of the people applauded it saying that it was one of the most impressive dinners of the year. Apathy!! Now we have Romeo squads and cow vigilantes who think that they are a parallel legal system. We don’t need more laws; we just need the integrity to implement them. Last day when I was driving home and a cow and a sheep bumped across my way at the same time, I was extra cautious not to hit the cow even at the cost of running over the sheep. I was afraid I would be issued shoot at sight order by cow vigilantes! They declared already that every drop of cow blood that is shed on ground, they won’t mind to slaughter even lakhs and lakhs of men. So my five liters’ of blood hardly matters!

Infect the lives of any other animal hardly matters in comparison to cow. Cow is sacred. Agreed! So is the life in every form. Why hypocrisy? I wonder how they miss this simple and beautiful aspect of Hinduism that life should be respected in all its forms. We don’t need Romeo squads to deal with eve teasers. We already have enough laws to deal with that. We don’t need another team of goons to deal with already existing ones.  Boys love to go out with girls and vice versa. Let’s deal with this. We need to teach our boys to respect girls when they take them out on a date; we need to teach our girls to be safe and strong enough to deal with unpleasant situations when they go out with boys.

Over 80 per cent of the Indian boys and girls would like to date someone of their choice and choose their life partner, but they are tuned to say that they want to respect their parent’s choice. This is not called culture, this is called hypocrisy. You are not allowed to say what you want, or even you are not allowed to feel what you feel. Because it is very unethical and immoral and so not Indian to just be what we are, or to just acknowledge what we feel. More than 75 per cent of the young boys have tasted alcohol but even in surveys 60 per cent would deny even having smelled it. This is not called good upbringing. This is called bringing up the boys without enough nerves to accept the truth. Most of the girls would love to wear comfortable modern cloths for work or for fun, but most of them stop themselves with ‘what would people think?” this is not called respect for culture. This is called lack of courage to be what you are and to be proud of it at the same time.

I am a young Indian. I like to tap my feet on the dance floor with my friends. I like to see myself twice in mirror in my sleek jeans. I love my occasional drinks and I go out to movies with my friends without thinking twice about their sex. I eat the food of my choice without any regret about the origin of that cheese if it has come from the gut of a pig or a cow, and still …. I would like to be known as an Indian, not as some westernized, disillusioned youth as they brand us. I am the young Indian, the unhypocratic Indian with no regrets and no disrespect.

Sanjeevani Kusum

(The writer is a lecturer in Government Junior College at Kovvur in West Godavari district. She can be reached atsanjeevanikusum@gmail.com & 8500707056)

4 Responses

  1. Divakaruni says:

    I like to tap my feet on the dance floor with my friends. I love my occasional drinks and I go out to movies with my friends without thinking twice about their sex. With whom Ms.Kusum? Definitely not to do all those things with someone’s else’s husband.
    Ms.Kusum, Feminism means “the advocacy of women’s rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes” not to grab a man from his family? Do you really feel that you are a feminist I don’t think so, because?
    Having a relationship with a married man who is having 27 years old daughter? And preaching him to act against his wife and his family? What are you expecting out of that relationship? When your relationship is so pure why are not answering his wife’s phone calls? why you blocked her mobile? What are trying to prove by blocking her mobile? Why are not clearing misunderstanding between husband and wife just because of your FRIENDSHIP?
    When u r preaching about hypocrisy, look into yourself also. Why are u advising her husband to block his wife’s mobile? What are trying to prove my dear feminist? Is this what you are teaching to your students in your college? When you r thinking you are a feminist then why you did not call a single women to your book opening? When they are so many successful writers and business women in both the states?

  2. Sumathi says:

    Mate poaching is a robust phenomenon, and it is here to stay. When single women see a moderately attractive male, they are more interested in him if they believe he is already in a relationship! Becareful wid this kid of people. My friend is one of the sufferer.

  3. Sumathi says:

    మగ పురుగు లేదు book (3 places లొ )రిలీజుకి ఎందుకని

  4. Stulasi says:

    T-PAIN
    Apple Bottom Jeans Lyrics
    New! Tap highlighted lyrics to add Meanings, Special Memories, and Misheard Lyrics…
    Play the T-Pain Quiz
    Advisory – the following lyrics contain explicit language:

    [Chorus]
    Shawty had them Apple Bottom Jeans [Jeans]
    Boots with the fur [With the fur]
    The whole club was lookin at her
    She hit the floor [She hit the floor]
    Next thing you know
    Shawty got low low low low low low low low

    Them baggy sweat pants
    And the Reeboks with the straps [With the straps]
    She turned around and gave that big booty a smack [Ayy]
    She hit the floor [She hit the floor]
    Next thing you know
    Shawty got low low low low low low low low

    Lyrics continue below

    FEATURED VIDEONaughty & Nice Christmas Songs Pt IIFEATURED VIDEOJared Leto Compares Writing A Song To Having A KidFEATURED VIDEO8 More Hilarious Misheard Lyrics About FoodFEATURED VIDEO12 Hit Songs You Won’t Believe Were Passed Up By Other Artists
    [Verse 1:]
    I ain’t never seen nuthin that’ll make me go,
    This crazy all night spendin my dough
    Had a million dollar vibe and a bottle to go
    Dem birthday cakes, they stole the show
    So sexual, she was flexible
    Professional, drinkin X and ooo
    Hold up wait a minute, do i see what I think I
    Whoa
    Did I think I seen shorty get low
    Ain’t the same when it’s up that close
    Make it rain, I’m makin it snow
    Work the pole, I got the bank roll
    Imma say that I prefer them no clothes
    I’m into that, I love women exposed
    She threw it back at me, I gave her more
    Cash ain’t a problem, got a pocket full of that!

    [Chorus]
    Shawty had them Apple Bottom Jeans [Jeans]
    Boots with the fur [With the fur]
    Got the whole club was lookin at her
    She hit the floor [She hit the floor]
    Next thing you know
    Shawty got low low low low low low low low

    Them baggy sweat pants
    And the Reeboks with the straps [With the straps]
    She turned around and gave that big booty a smack [Ayy]
    She hit the floor [She hit the floor]
    Next thing you know
    Shawty got low low low low low low low low

    [Verse 2:]
    Hey
    Shawty what I gotta do to get you home
    My jeans full of gwap
    And they ready for Shones
    Cadillacs Maybachs for the sexy grown
    Patrone on the rocks that’ll make you moan

    One stack (come on)
    Two stacks (come on)
    Three stacks (come on, now that’s three grand)
    What you think I’m playin baby girl
    I’m the man, I’ll bend the rubber bands

    That’s what I told her, her legs on my shoulder
    I knew it was ova, that Henny and Cola
    Got me like a Soldier
    She ready for Rover, I couldn’t control her
    So lucky oo me, I was just like a clover
    Shorty was hot like a toaster
    Sorry but I had to fold her,
    Like a pornography poster
    She showed her

    [Chorus]
    Apple Bottom Jeans [Jeans]
    Boots with the fur [With the fur]
    The whole club was lookin at her
    She hit the floor [She hit the floor]
    Next thing you know
    Shawty got low low low low low low low low

    Them baggy sweat pants
    And the Reeboks with the straps [With the straps]
    She turned around and gave that big booty a smack [Ayy]
    She hit the floor [She hit the floor]
    Next thing you know
    Shawty got low low low low low low low low

    [Verse 3:]
    Whoa
    Shawty
    Yea she was worth the money
    Lil mama took my cash,
    And I ain’t want it back,
    The way she bit that rag,
    Got her them paper stacks,
    Tattoo Above her crack,
    I had to handle that,

    I was on it, sexy woman, let me shownin
    They be want it two in the mornin
    I’m zonin in them rosay bottles foamin
    She wouldn’t stop, made it drop
    Shorty did that pop and lock,
    Had to break her off that gwap
    Gah it was fly just like my glock

    [Chorus]
    Apple Bottom Jeans [Jeans]
    Boots with the fur [With the fur]
    Got the whole club was lookin at her
    She hit the floor [She hit the floor]
    Next thing you know
    Shawty got low low low low low low low low

    Them baggy sweat pants
    And the Reeboks with the straps [With the straps]
    She turned around and gave that big booty a smack [Ayy]
    She hit the floor [She hit the floor]
    Next thing you know
    Shawty got low low low low low low low low
    Come on! come on!

    Song Discussions is protected by U.S. Patent 9401941. Other patents pending.

    Download “Apple Bottom J…” Ringtone

    by Taboola Sponsored Links AROUND THE WEB
    Tiger Shroff and Disha Patani: A tasty inside story!
    LiveinStyle.com
    India’s 1st Ivy League Healthcare Management Programme
    Columbia Mailman School of Public Health
    DISCUSS THIS SONG
    Add a new song discussion.

    HOT SONGS
    1
    River Lyrics
    Eminem
    Eminem River lyrics 2
    Perfect Symphony Lyrics
    Ed Sheeran
    Ed Sheeran Perfect Symphony lyrics 3
    12 Days of Christmas Lyrics
    Christmas Song
    Christmas Song 12 Days of Christmas lyrics 4
    Rudolph, The Red Nosed Reindeer Lyrics
    Christmas Carols
    Christmas Carols Rudolph, The Red Nosed Reindeer lyrics 5
    Jingle Bells Lyrics
    Christmas Carols
    Christmas Carols Jingle Bells lyrics 6
    Winter Wonderland Lyrics
    Christmas Carols
    Christmas Carols Winter Wonderland lyrics 7
    Joy To The World Lyrics
    Christmas Carols
    Christmas Carols Joy To The World lyrics 8
    Man’s Not Hot Lyrics
    Big Shaq
    Big Shaq Man’s Not Hot lyrics 9
    Away In A Manger Lyrics
    Christmas Carols
    Christmas Carols Away In A Manger lyrics 10
    Silent Night Lyrics
    Christmas Carols
    Christmas Carols Silent Night lyrics TOP 100 SONGS
    LATEST NEWS
    Listen To Taylor Swift’s New Song ‘Call It What You Want’
    Watch Sam Smith And Fifth Harmony Join James Corden For Carpool Karaoke
    Watch Taylor Swift’s New Music Video For ‘…Ready for It?’

    Listen To Selena Gomez’ New Song ‘Wolves’
    Taylor Swift’s New Song Is ‘Gorgeous’
    MORE MUSIC NEWS BACK TO THE TOP

    Copyright © 2017 CBS Interactive Inc. / All rights reserved.

    Entertainment Tonight/TV Guide Network
    Privacy Policy | Terms of Use

    Read more: T-Pain – Apple Bottom Jeans Lyrics | MetroLyrics. My husband s girl friend forwarded this song. Days has changed. What do we call this kind of woman.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.